The biggest problem that I have with it is how it ties this “toxicity” to masculinity. Toxic water and bad bacon are still water and bacon, but “toxic masculinity” isn’t masculinity at all, as you admit, Lookyloo. You are comparing tangible consumables with something that is an attitude, a mode of being. They are just water and bacon with bad things mixed inside. Toxic water and bad bacon are *still* water and bacon. Why not stick to the basics instead of inventing a new problematic term? Terms like “machismo” are older, have been in use for far longer and are quite competent at getting the point across. I actually do have basic comprehension skills. I don’t think it means “all men are a certain way, etc”.
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(And the problem is with a society that largely enshrines the toxic variant and perpeturates it, and by extension seeks to provide cover for it by misinforming people about feminism and pitting them against it to preserve a shitty status and imperator That’s what the term means- not that “men are all necessarily this way and it’s *because* they’re men”- and if you resist its use because you misunderstand that, the problem isn’t with the term, it’s with your misunderstanding. By violence, by bigotry, by the idea that the only appropriate way to express manhood is through domination, which renders everyone a target for hegemonic abuse and renders every emotion other than raging ego to be ‘womanly’ and ‘weak.’ “Toxic masculinity” means there is a strain- a version of the ‘product’- that IS tainted. “Toxic masculinity” doesn’t *mean* “all masculinity is violent, bigoted, emotionally stunted, demeaning to ‘others,’ etc ” if you believe that it’s because you’ve gotten bad information from people who are stupid (or who are lying for the prupose of providing cover *for* toxic assholes). If you think “toxic masculinity” shouldn’t be a term because- uhh- “real masculinity isn’t toxic,” then you must get really confused when people say, for instance, “don’t eat that bacon, it’s gone bad.” “Bacon is good, so it can’t be bad!” Cue food poisoning. No allegations of coercive or criminal behaviour were made. However this behaviour is unacceptable and administrative action was taken against those present, with disciplinary measures taken against one individual.? FFS. Said an Army spokesman, “We can confirm an incident did take place and details were referred to the Royal Military Police for an initial investigation. The other has gone AWOL and is expected to be discharged from the Army. One of the victims remains with the battalion and has reportedly been the target of additional bullying. Said the unnamed source, “The RSM was rightly horrified and I think he apologised to the guys. The Military Police got involved and it was reported to them as a rape as there were guys there that could have stopped it but didn’t.”Īs far as what action has been taken since, 6 soldiers have reportedly been punished and the Surrey Police have launched their own investigation. It was horrific and worse than anything I have ever known in the Army.”Ī senior official became aware of the video and told the victims he was launching an investigation. Everyone was on their phones and pointing out the blokes it had happened to.They were mocked for being gay, although they were forced into the acts.
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Said The Sun’s source: “The footage had spread like wildfire. Video of the incident was then shared around by the victims’ fellow guardsmen via email, WhatsApp, SnapChat and Facebook. “They had no choice in what they were doing, it was bullying at its absolute worst. “The two guys must both have been terrified. “It was totally out of control and the older and more senior guys were obviously ordering them to do what they did.
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What happens on the footage is disgusting.
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They were then allegedly forced to carry out sex acts on each other too disgusting to describe in detail. The Sun on Sunday understands the new recruits were ordered to strip and warned they would be mercilessly bullied if they did not.